Grab your Mighty Maca, get cozy, and pull up a chair — this one is close to my heart. In this episode I'm joined by the very first graduates of my Magic Menopause Hormone Restoration Coaching Certification: Emily, Ann, Amy, and Angela. Four women, four completely different paths into menopause, and one shared mission — making sure no woman has to figure this out alone. We talk surgical menopause, the myths that keep women suffering in silence, the postpartum "mini-menopause" nobody warns you about, and what it really takes to feel like yourself again.
Timestamps
- 00:00 Welcome and meet the first Magic Menopause coaches
- 02:09 Emily's story, from burnout to becoming every woman's advocate
- 05:26 Ann's story, a fertility journey that led her to integrative medicine
- 10:33 Amy's story, surviving sudden surgical menopause
- 15:38 Angela's story, how coaching became a matter of life and death
- 21:56 Busting the biggest menopause myths
- 25:04 Emily's postpartum "mini menopause" story
- 30:07 The truth about hormones and cancer risk
- 32:06 Girlfriend to girlfriend, words of encouragement
- 38:18 Menopause in the workplace
- 41:16 Where to find each coach
- 45:27 Closing thoughts and what's next
Since 2014, Dr. Anna Cabeca has led women through her Magic Menopause program, an 8-week journey that brings together hormone education, nutrition, sleep support, and lifestyle strategy for women before, during, and after menopause. In this episode, she sits down with the very first graduates of her Magic Menopause Hormone Restoration Coaching Certification — Emily (Alaska), Ann (Maryland/dental field), Amy (Georgia), and Angela (Maryland, corporate exec turned coach) — to talk about what brought each of them into this work.
"There is a point of cocooning, and then we emerge the butterfly. It's not without struggle — but it's definitely with purpose and passion." — Dr. Anna Cabeca
Emily's Story: From Burnout to Becoming Every Woman's Advocate
Emily runs a one-woman holistic health practice in Palmer, Alaska, where she supports clients through massage therapy, lab interpretation, and whole-person health coaching. Her path here started with watching women in her close-knit community quietly burn out — carrying the invisible work of a household, a career, and everyone else's needs, with nothing left over for themselves.
"We do a lot of invisible work. There's the burden of so much falling to us to work in the background to make things functional. Women are the greatest resource that we have in this world. We drive everything, and we just need more care." — Emily
She also shared how many of her clients had never been asked basic health questions by a doctor before — and how much of her work now is simply teaching women there's a better, more supported way to feel well.
Ann's Story: A Fertility Journey That Led Her to Integrative Medicine
Ann's road to this work began with her own fertility challenges, which she credits with opening her eyes to integrative medicine — an approach that looked at her as a whole person rather than a list of symptoms. Years later, when perimenopause symptoms hit (poor sleep, heightened anxiety, brain fog), an email from Dr. Anna landed at exactly the right moment.
"I've been in your shoes, and I'm still in your shoes — but you're not alone. I'm going to be here with you, and we're going to go through this together." — Ann
As a nurse and dental-office team member, Ann has spent her career surrounded by women doing the essential, often unseen work that keeps things running — which is exactly why she wanted to become a coach herself.
Amy's Story: Surviving Sudden Surgical Menopause
Ten years ago, Amy had a hysterectomy. What her doctor didn't fully prepare her for was surgical menopause — sudden and, in her words, brutal. Within two to three weeks she was having hot flashes every 20 minutes, day and night, along with brain fog, rapid weight gain, and urinary symptoms. When she asked for hormone support, she says she was told to try herbal remedies instead. It took four and a half years before she found Dr. Anna's Magic Menopause program.
"I learned what I needed to know to banish those hot flashes. And for me, it involved advocating with my doctor for the hormones my body desperately needed — that I was told I couldn't have." — Amy
Amy's experience reflects something Dr. Anna sees often: roughly 600,000 women a year in the U.S. undergo hysterectomy, and more than half also have their ovaries removed — meaning they move into surgical menopause immediately, at every age.
Angela's Story: How Menopause Coaching Became a Matter of Life and Death
Angela's story is the most dramatic of the group. A high-ranking executive who led teams of over 1,200 people across three continents, she says she knew everything about business and almost nothing about her own health — until she lost two close friends and her mother and brother before that. That grief became the turning point that sent her looking for a different path, which eventually led her to Dr. Anna.
"Dr. Anna saved my life, and that's not a statement I make lightly." — Angela
"For the busy career women who are doing for everyone else and not making any time for yourself — stop. You matter. Your life is valuable." — Angela
Since starting the program, Angela says her hair has grown back, her health markers have moved in the right direction, and she's become an unofficial ambassador for Dr. Anna wherever she travels.
Busting the Biggest Menopause Myths
Each coach shared the one myth about menopause she most wishes she could erase for good:
Angela: "Suffering in silence is just normal."
Angela pointed to symptoms like vaginal dryness that women assume are just part of getting older, when in fact there's support available — they simply haven't been told.
Ann: "You just have to power through."
Ann pushed back hard on this one, pointing to the community, information, and coaching now available so women don't have to white-knuckle their way through this stage of life.
Emily: "This is just normal now — deal with it."
Emily draws a clear line between common and normal.
"You might be suffering a lot of symptoms that are common, but it's not normal. Let's teach you how to get your body back into play." — Emily
Amy: "Hormones are the enemy."
Amy pointed to how the Women's Health Initiative study shifted a generation of prescribing habits, and how she's come to understand the nuance behind the headlines. This reflects her personal experience and Dr. Anna's clinical perspective as a physician — always talk with your own qualified provider about whether hormone therapy is appropriate for you.
The Postpartum "Mini-Menopause" No One Talks About
Emily shared a striking story from her own life: after an emergency C-section with her fourth baby, she experienced sudden hot flashes, night sweats, and temperature dysregulation. Her midwife told her this was common after birth and that little was known about why it happens. Drawing on her own background in nutrition, Emily supported her adrenal health directly — and saw 70% of her symptoms resolve within two days.
Dr. Anna connected this to what she calls a postpartum-to-perimenopause shift: a steep hormone drop after pregnancy, compounded by sleep deprivation and the added stress of new motherhood — a window she says deserves far more attention and support than it currently gets.
Menopause in the Workplace
The conversation turned to something Dr. Anna and Angela agree doesn't get talked about nearly enough: the cost of unsupported menopause in the workplace. Angela spoke candidly about being one of the only women in rooms full of men throughout her career in the military and state department, where symptoms simply weren't discussed — and how that silence contributed to the burnout, and worse, that she watched happen to friends and colleagues.
Both agreed that educating workplaces on this transition isn't just a women's health issue — it's a retention issue, affecting some of the most experienced talent in any organization.
Where to Find Each Coach
Emily — one-woman holistic practice in Palmer, Alaska (massage therapy, lab interpretation, whole-person health coaching).
Ann — building a new coaching community (working name: the AE Program).
Amy — based in Georgia, on staff supporting Dr. Anna's coaching community and exploring a local hormone-practice partnership in Atlanta.
Angela — Maryland-based executive coach for busy, stressed career professionals, also leading small-group wellness trips to Europe. Find her on Instagram and Facebook as Angela Crump Volcy.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the Magic Menopause program?
It's Dr. Anna Cabeca's 8-week coaching journey that brings together hormone education, nutrition, sleep strategies, and lifestyle support to help women feel their best before, during, and after menopause.
What is surgical menopause?
Surgical menopause happens when the ovaries are removed (often during a hysterectomy), causing an abrupt hormonal shift rather than the gradual transition of natural menopause. Symptoms can appear within weeks and are often more intense — this is a conversation to have with your own physician.
Is it common to feel discomfort or dryness during menopause?
Many women experience changes like vaginal dryness during perimenopause and menopause, and it's a common topic women hesitate to bring up. It's worth discussing openly with a healthcare provider, since support options exist.
What's the difference between a "common" menopause symptom and a "normal" one?
As Emily puts it on the episode: common doesn't mean normal. Many symptoms show up frequently across women going through this transition, but that doesn't mean they have to be accepted as unchangeable — support and education can make a real difference.
Can hormones change after pregnancy in a way that feels like menopause?
Some women experience a sharp postpartum hormone drop that can feel similar to a menopause transition, sometimes called a "mini-menopause." Supporting adrenal health and overall lifestyle habits during this window may help — talk with your provider about what's right for you.
A Note on What You Heard in This Episode
The stories and experiences shared by our guests are personal and individual — results vary from woman to woman. This episode is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Always talk with your own healthcare provider before making changes to your hormone therapy, supplement routine, or overall health plan.
Want to Become the Next Voice Women Turn To?
Emily, Ann, Amy, and Angela didn't start as menopause experts — they started as women who lived it, then went looking for a way to turn that experience into real, credentialed skill. That's exactly what the Magic Menopause Certified Coach program is built for: training practitioners, health professionals, and passionate advocates to guide women through perimenopause and menopause with the science, coaching tools, and clinical framework behind Dr. Anna Cabeca's work.
Learn more about the certification and see if it's the right next step for you: Magic Menopause Certified Coach Program
Keep the Conversation Going
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Disclaimer:
* The information provided is for educational purposes only and should not be construed as medical advice. Always consult with your healthcare professional before starting any supplement program.
