It’s been so long since my partner and I had good sex, it feels hopeless. Can your program really help me?

Absolutely. There are many reasons why sexual frequency and satisfaction diminish in long term relationships, but they aren’t mysterious. There are very specific causes and strategies for figuring out what the issues are in your relationship, and for addressing them, one step at a time. My program is designed for a woman in your position.

I’ve never been able to achieve orgasm easily, even when I was 20. Why would that change now?

For a small percentage of women, achieving orgasm has never been difficult and continues to be a regular occurrence during sexual interaction with a partner. For the rest of us, however, it’s a bit trickier. The thing you need to know is that teaching your body how to orgasm is a learned skill. In this course, you’ll learn specific exercises and approaches that will allow your body to naturally open to orgasm (without ever feeling pressured or forced), no matter how long it’s been since you had one, and no matter how old you are.

Is this material really something that can be learned online? Isn’t it more experiential?

Good point. While the material is well suited to teaching online—through webinars, teleclasses, and digital materials—we all know that information alone does not physically transform people. Your part is to take the recommended exercises and instructions and actually practice them. If you are not willing to try something new, this course probably isn’t for you.

It’s been so long since I felt intense sexual desire and all the drama that goes with it. I’m not sure I want to go back to that. Why is it so important?

First, drama is never important, so just don’t participate in it! But sex IS important for our overall health and wellbeing because it makes us feel connected to another human being in the most intimate and profound way. Plus, it’s like a detox and recharge all at once. I compare sexual satisfaction to being “plugged in” to a deep well of energy. When you have access to this energy, your whole life expands. You feel more positive and productive. You’re happier, and are able to achieve your dreams and goals with more grace and ease.

I don’t have a partner right now. Should I wait to take the course until I do?

Don’t wait! Take the course NOW so you’ll be in a passionate and open place, ready for that special person to walk into your life. Imagine how thrilled they’ll be to have found such a sensual, sexually well-versed lover!

It’s so expensive – I can’t afford it right now.

Let me put this into perspective for you. What is it costing you NOT to address the loss of your sex drive? Think about the hours, day, weeks, months you’ve spent in a grouchy mood, nagging at your partner, feeling disconnected. Do you think this works with or against your ability to be more productive, make more money, and have more satisfying interactions with everyone in your life – including your kids, your colleagues, your friends, and even the local grocery store clerk? If you think about how your life would change in so many ways – both tangible and intangible – by reinvigorating your sex life and reconnecting in a deep way with your partner, is it worth less than the price of an hour with a therapist?

I have sexual abuse and trauma in my past. Will the course address those issues and be relevant for women like me?

I can relate to this, and I know many women in the course will too. While this is not a course specifically about healing sexual trauma, we will not ignore it either and will address the topic with the utmost care and respect.

I was raised in an environment where it was taboo to talk about sex or dress sexy. I’m still uncomfortable with it and don’t like it when women are overtly sexual. Frankly, I’m not convinced that sex is that important. Why would someone like me want to join?

A great sex life is vital for our physical and emotional health at EVERY age! The "love hormone" Oxytocin can help you fend off stress, enjoy better sleep, boost your immune system, and balance your hormones... and all of that will help you look and feel years younger. You don't have to dress sexy to enjoy all these great health benefits either — in fact I like to leave something to the imagination (if you know what I mean).

I am overweight and embarrassed by my body. I don’t even want to think about having sex until I’ve lost weight. Is now the right time for me to do this course?

Did you know that some of the sexiest women I’ve ever known were considerably overweight? It’s true. Your body size is not the issue. How you feel about yourself determines whether you feel sexy and are perceived as sexy by your partner. If you are willing to open to the possibility that you are a desirable, sexy woman — just as you are right now — then you can experience amazing intimacy and connection with your partner. This is 100% true, but you must be willing to take the leap to experience this for yourself. Besides, I have found that the best way to start losing weight is to start enjoying life and having fun. When you are satisfied in other areas of your life, you have less desire to overeat and tend to be more active.